All women do is use and manipulate you into doing their bidding.

They’re willing to sit next to you every day of class work together on everything, they get close to you, they flirt and touch you suggestively, you spend hours together outside the classroom, you even ask them out, yet they don’t have the courtesy to tell you they’re not interested.

They don’t tell you if they’re in a relationship until after they’ve got their claws dug so deep into your soul there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it. They mention it like it’s nothing.

Then they accuse you of having problems via social settings, friendship, etc. What’s so wrong with developing feelings for someone?!?!? Especially when you have felt really close to them over the past few months.

Then after all the air is cleared and you don’t let there be any smokescreens or random thoughts between you two, they still don’t give you proper closure.

At least, on very rare occasions, some do have the courtesy of agreeing never speaking to you again.

My point I’m trying to make here is don’t EVER fall for someone unless you are certain they express an interest in you and you know that they like you back. DON’T listen to women and their problems their having when they don’t respect you. And most certainly DON’T build up the idea of the perfect woman in your head when they’re probably just as cold and calculating as you’d expect them to be.

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Comment by Dan
2008-02-14 11:37:20

Man I’d agree with you on a lot of this. Some women use men just as some men use women. Some of them are genuinely nice but there’s bound to be downsides to them all :(

Life just goes on I guess. Most of us will find ideal partners in the end - we’ll just have to keep searching the 3 billion or so women our there! Haha

 
Comment by James Lewitzke
2008-02-14 21:21:09

Thanks Dan,

Sure, the post is personally-driven, but I just had to have a Valentine’s Day Rant :)

I’m surprised you have that much faith that there’s “ideal partners” for most of us in the end. Just how much of the 3 Billion women in the world do guys like us have access to? That number’s definitely lower than 3 Billion.

 
Comment by Dan
2008-02-15 03:44:03

Haha yeh true. I’m interested in a particular girl right now but of course there’s competition! :@ Lol. Tbh though there are a lot of people in the world are happily married and in relationships so there’s hope for us all yet!

Valentines day has finally passed :) Another 365 days until the next over-commercialized, frustrating, pointless festival we call Valentines…!

 
Comment by James Lewitzke
2008-02-16 11:42:37

Hopefully you have better luck of winning her affection than I did :)

And I’m glad the so-called “holiday” passed too. Maybe one day people will realize that it’s not money and gifts that will win people over, its how you treat that person and how much you’re in love with them. (OK I’m starting to ramble here, and what do I know about love? )

Anyways……..

 
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