*Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against non-native speakers, just the quick posts for the sake of post count.

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Now the other experience I had was quite different. A girl came up giving me all these compliments about how well-groomed, well-dressed she thought I was compared with all these other guys at college. She wasn’t really my type (too much make-up, etc.) but I got into her as she kept giving me these complements and striking up friendly conversations with me even though I initially did keep my distance, being my own ‘rational’ and distrustful self. But still, I fell for her. Then at some point I was talking about how I like having a whisky at a local pub with a friend from time to time. So her friend who was sitting at the same table as we were talking proposed that we go out for a drink sometime.

I agreed to meeting in the pub as I thought it would allow me to get to know that particular girl a little better. It wasn’t a ‘date’ but rather just an occasion to be away from college and see how she was in a different setting. She brought over another friend of hers (not from college) that particular evening whom she ended up engaging in childish conversations with, to the point of just plain ignoring me. I began to suspect she had a boyfriend and afterwards I asked one of the other girls about it. Turned out she had a boyfriend all along but was unhappy in the relationship.

I thought I had a hot chick who was into me who might be worth getting to know better but I quickly found that I was just some kind of a diversion to her, like an expendable trophy, and I am sure as hell that I was just one in a series of similar ‘victims’. Not once did she mention her having a long-term relationship, and when I began to just stop talking to her altogether, she would still force herself on me and sit right next to me during lunch break. I was terribly angry with her, of course, and I managed to piss her off by ignoring her so she stopped bothering me. Looking back on it, I should have told her straight in the face that she’s a slut worthy of hell. But oh well, another lesson learnt!

I’ve had been terribly unlucky in love yet I still want to give it a try. Then again, when I look at all the nonsense guys have to put up with from these whiny, childish, and sometimes downright greedy spoilt brats, I honestly believe that ‘relationships’ are overrated. Would having a girlfriend really make you happier? Maybe! What I’m saying is that having a girlfriend or wife isn’t the holy grail. You might be happier with one, but then again, a bad girlfriend might also destroy your life. A good girlfriend, on the other hand, would be someone who gives direction to your life and gets the best out of you. It takes a while to find those, although I think it’s best not to obsessively ‘search’ (or hunt) for one.

As for friendship with women, trust me, it’s impossible. There is no such thing as platonic love between men and women. Not too long ago I got quite close with a girl who I had lots in common with in terms of outlook on life and worldview. She was attractive in a certain way but not necessarily romantically to me. I just happened to have lots of respect for her as a person. She was in a steady relationship already so I did keep a certain distance. However, I got to know her sister somewhat and ended up having a crush on her. When I tried to ask her sister out, she was somehow devastated and didn’t talk to me for a while. In fact, she felt ‘betrayed’ or something.

This just shows how men and women differ! She probably liked me more than she was ever willing to admit so I guess she was just jealous about my asking her sister out, even though she was in a relationship herself. From my perspective, that doesn’t make any sense. I would have thought she’d have been flattered by my having feelings for her younger sister, but she was angry instead. Ever since that happened, things haven’t been quite the same. College’s finished and now she hardly corresponds, which is fine by me, because at the end of the day – apart from your mother and sister(s), women who are not relationship or marriage-material are a big waste of time.

My advice – don’t let allow them to waste your time. Only girls that really had some potential should be ‘allowed’ to give you heartaches, because at least those may have been worth the try. So, make sure you find out whether they’re single or not asap and if they are, drop them immediately. These abusive tarts should not be allowed to waste one single second (or penny) of your life. Also, never allow yourself to develop a crush on someone just for their good looks, especially if you don’t have any chance of talking to them. This is pretty easy to do, it just takes some self-control. Apart from that, just ask yourself this – would you rather have a couple of real good (guy) friends the rest of your life, or have a wife who’s got over 50% likelihood of cheating on you and divorcing you anyway?

Then again, life is full of risks, and birth is perhaps the biggest risk of them all.

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