I'm not at all popular and just moved into the school system with about 5 friedns who knew me at my old school. They're all at different social levels and would be able to tell if i'm trying to move up the ladder as soon as i tried it and they would shoot me down. I don't want to be the most popular kid in school but i do want people to know and like me. Also i have a small weight problem. I'm nowher near fat but i'm not thin and muscular which i think would help me become popular. What do i do and does anyone have a way fro me to slim down and get some muscle? HELP!!!
shut the f up no one likes a slut other than for that short time that they're in bed with them and she's right guys won't want to be with her after awhile so don't call her a bitch
Just because you can't "afford" it doesn't mean you can't be popular. There's always a way to get around the money problem. First you don't have to buy the biggest name brands. Instead go to the smaller names and buy their clothes, purses, etc. but you don't have to show everyone where you got it from. The main part here is that you don't want to buy the clothes that just shout "I'm a cheap ass knock off and the only thing that this kid can afford." Secondly watch how they rich girls act. I don't mean that you should become a stalker but you should take note of the way they talk, walk, etc. and change it a little bit to fit your personality. Key point here is to not copy everything to the point or else they'll catch on and then make the rest of your life miserable. (Trust me I've seen it happen and it ain't pretty." Finally know how to wear your clothes, makeup, and accesories. Don't come in to school this 20 pounds of make up, excessively flashy clothes and jewlery, and extra large purses or else you'll just look stupid. Follow these steps and you should be able to fit right in with them. But the number one rule for this advice and any other advice you follow is to keep people from knowing what you're trying to do. Don't do this and then expect to be popular the next day or over do the "bling" or people will find you out an ridicule you for it.
noo wayy doo iee agree!!!
nott only cause ie am a girl but, most girls can see right through boys!
we class them bad boy, sweet inersent type so on even before youh talk to us, so if youh do we are prepared!
andd btw what youh said was so sexist! and if youh talk like that infront of girls god help youh! youh are really disrespectfull! and tbh a d**k!
hahaa! done in!
sorry i come from england. and ie want to become more popular. i am quite popular at the moment, but not enough! my boyfriends getting in fights because of me. so if ie become queen bee (most popular girl in school) he wont anymore? because then people wont start on him!
but i find everyones oppinion intresting! i think your all right i your own ways but when one peron said: people should like you for yourself! i think that is right but not true. have youh noticed that people hang around with other people who are similar too thereselfs e.g. asian people hang around with other asain peole! and thats why they like youh! so if your not popular and want to get into that croud iam sorry but your going to have to change yourself! or 'act' like your one of them but youh will get caught up and turn out like them! this always happens!
your going too have to munipulate what everyone says and your going to have too make people like youh! if the queen bee likes youh everyone follows! but dont start big! your proberly trying to become popular quickly but thats not going to happen! its going to take time! unless your doctor who or something?!?!?! but as it says in the blog or whatever it is! youh need to date someone popular (then youh will be known as the girl/boy who dated NAME) then youh build up your reputation from there, youh mix with people a bit more and more evry week! start hagging with popular people and work your way up to the top! one your hanging with the most popular person youh have to defeat them! this will be hard and may take a while to do! just remember act the part, be the part, and always look gorgeous! people will find youh atractive! and once youh have dated a few people off the football team your defently popular!
bringing them down: this is going to be the hard part! youh need to spend a few nights planing how your going to do this! observe the weeknesses! and defently the strengths because youh can make them also become the weeknesses! just play with the queen bee's emotions make her put on some weight or somehing (a girls weight is always improtant!)
if youh think this is spitefull? just get over it! life is that way! and school is one big popularity contest!
oh no offense but this is stupid...im popular at school and i dont have to goe trough all dat crazy shit..u mention....for those of you who want to be "popular" just talk to everyone, you shouldn't care if they are ugly,tall,fat,short,etc. && just BE YOU and have fun...people dont need to smoke and get to wild enough to get kicked out of school by starting a fight thats just fukin stupid..
Hey
This is probably good advice for guys, but I'm a girl. (lol just a tiny problem :])
My problem is that i attend this academic program that puts me in the 3 classes with the same 24 people for all four years of high school. Everyone that knows me thinks I'm nice and all but I don't get to meet many people throughout the day. (And no I didn't join this program of my free will. My parents signed me up.)
Oh also I'm attending a different high school thats not in my home town so none of my old friends are with me.
I was too busy to join and clubs/sports this year (freshmen). Also, because I'm in this program, people automatically think.."nerd/geek" w.e. I'm not.
How can I break out of this and get more friends and make myself a different rep?